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June 10

I got sugggested when talking to one of the most incredible person I have talked to on MSN the other day that I would write about trust on here. We were touching the subject in our conversation and I thought it was a great idea so I have started to think what to write about...

... trust, as the other subjects I like to blog about, does have so many different meanings but what I would like to focus on here is touching my favourite subject, relationships. Trust within a reationship and maybe trust IN the relationship itself, and the trust between the people involved.

I guess most of us agree on that if you have been 'bruised' many times here in life you will naturally become more reluctant to face the same situations and I believe that this is making us more reluctant to let us give out what is needed for others to have trust in us and also we are afraid of trusting someone, or something else.

So how do you trust someone? Again I want to point out that this is a very general blog and of course there are as many different kinds of trust as there are humans. Some people do trust others very easily (and sometimes foolishly) while others hardly ever leet anyone close. So where is the difference? why do some let others come close and others not, why do we feel more trusting to some while not others (even if you don't really know the persons that well or at all sometimes!).

And now to the main issue, is it possible to regain a lost trust? If you have loved someone, trusted that someone and believed in that someone, you thought it was you and that someone, nothing could stop you two. Then this other one turns to love someone else and you realize you have always been number two, never been that special one that you thought and you trusted to be. Now you get torn and loose all faith in this person and time elapses. This person returns to you later on and ask you again to get involved, now is this possible? Is it stupid to be saying 'no'? Me myself could not say 'yes', even though this person was meaning more than myself to me in a way and even the fact that I loved this one so dearly and that I never had had such a wonderful lovely time with anyone before, I still could not say yes, I just couldn't put myself in a situation where I was possibly gonna feel the pain again. Now is this stupid? I would like to welcome your thoughts.

Well, as usual this was thought to be a good idea to blog about and again I have managed to blur things up to a complete mess. Someday I might straighten things out!

And finally....

To the very interesting MSN contact I have that not only encouraged me to write this blog but that has helped me in other blog entries to clearify my thoughts and that is a source of many ideas, this wonderful person is so amazing and I say this with deepest respect even though I don't really know this person at all. This person is worth more credit than any of my words can give here, so I hope you know you have meant a lot even though we haven't spoken much.

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	one with lifewrote: Everyone that comes into our experience is i believe an angel. Here to reflect the wounds that we carry from past moments and so bringing it to our conscius awareness so we may hold that pain & let it go. When a situation arises where trust is an issue we must always look at how we FEEL. An angel has come forward and created a situation in which we ( ourselves ) can re-experience an old wound and hopefully heal it. Once healed, that situation will not happen again. If never faced as belonging to you already...and you blame the angel formaking you not trust...the experiences will keep re-occuring. We hold the emotions inside our cellular memories...they arn't given by others. I hope this helps a soul to look within and find peace. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Apr. 4
	babybelle coupewrote: i was on messenger a few weeks back and i made friends with someone, but for weeks i was saying, send me somemore pics of you, turns out the pic was of that person but of someone else. why do they do that? cant we all just be ourselves. it made me think that because they decived me by telling me a little white lie then what else have they lied about? i usually have an open heart and mind when it comes to people, i dont judge everyone the same and i trust people frok the start unless they proove differantly June 15
	Princess Froggetwrote: Trust is one of the most Fragile of our Emotions, it can take years 2 build up & yet can be destroyed in a few seconds. If something is worth fighting 4, then yes that trust can be got back. It takes a lot of time tho & a lot of work, u have 2b prepared 2 do this. It sounds like this is ur quandry, whether 2 or not. No one is infallible & everyone makes mistakes. It is wot we learn from those mistakes that counts. It is a strong person that can find foregiveness in their hearts. The biggest downfall in a Relationship where Trust has been broken, is that the injured party "says" they will 4give & 4get- but can't, not fully. Further down the road tho, in arguments, the subject matter of the broken trust , will be flung back in their partners face, so setting the seal of doom on the Relationship- So be Warned!! If u are really gonna 4give, then u have 2 bury it & never bring it up again! Another big part of Trust is Respect. If u have trusted someone & they have broken that trust, then they have in essence let u down & so u lose the respect, the high esteem of which u had so highly regarded them. So then...2 do u give them a 2nd chance? Do u risk opening ur heart 2 them, leaving urself open 2 an even deeper cut ? Well, if it was me, the questions I wud be asking myself wud be....Is that person worth the risk? Do they mean so much 2 me, that it outweighs the risk of being hurt again? If I don't take this chance...will I look back on it 4 the rest of my life...with regret? U mite even find, that once back 2gether, UR feelings that once were 4 that person, have changed & all this time u have been holding ont2 nothing but blissful memories. Sometimes, no matter how much we want 2, we can't turn back time & be in that exact place, that we once were. So summing up(!!) I personally wud take that chance! The chance of capturing something that is so rare & special & if u can't, Well at least u'll know & u know uv tried. U can then move on with no regrets & knowing that u can then set urslef new horizons & be ready 2 find Love again...I wud rather face & conquer...than always be left wondering & look back with regret! Good Blog! Luv PF XXX June 10

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