First, thank you for the comments on my previous blog items, appreciate them.

 

And now to a big topic that I would like to walk into. This topic is huge and I will probably spend a couple of blog entries for this but let's see how we can start. The topic: Men vs Women.

 

I don't know how many times I will have this discussion with people. Men and women are (generally speaking now of course... I am not that stupid to realize that there are variations but here we will do with the general man and woman, otherwise we could discuss details til we drop dead) so different, not only physical but also when it comes to the mind. I see this fact as a very positive one and am glad that we are different because there are pros and cons with both ways in different situations. What bothers me is that people seem to ignore this fact and are very surprised when they realize that they have misunderstood eachother. This is very obvious when it comes to relationship questions and many people have experienced that when they break a relationship they start to look back and really can't understand how the other person reacted, was looking at situations etc. We humans are biological creatures, I don't believe there is any 'me' that is in control, rather we are impulsive and are acting upon synapses signals traveeling and responses to these, all biological. We know for sure that the biological differences between men and women are quite big, thinking of hormoes etc. I think that all this adds up to huge differnces between men and women, both in terms of acting and behaving but also in thinking.

 

Hmm, I realize that all this became just a mess and no structure whatsoever but I hate erasign and redoing so instead I will try to write more about this another day when I can think more clearly.. just got a new subject on my mind when it comes to blogging that might be more interesting, "how cruelty wins in a relationship"... so look forward to taht :)

 

Thanks all that read this.